So often when we have severed contact with a family member well-meaning people around us tell us that Life is too short to hold a grudge, make up!
But I am here to tell you something completely different.
If you have made the difficult and life-altering decision to sever contact with unhealthy, toxic, or hateful family members/friends/anyone, then, under no circumstances think that that type of guilt-inducing sentiment refers to you.
If you have found a way to cut toxicity out of your life, maintain that as well as you can...and don't give in to the guilt-trippers trying to tell you how wrong you are.
Choose good health and self care.
This needed saying again.